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Speak Favor Into Others - As This Reflects Speaking Favor Into Yourself

Speaking favor into others is a great way to help shift the energy dynamics in how you and that other person interact. This may seem very 'woo-woo, ' yet as with anything suggested, I always say just try it. By speaking and thinking favorable thoughts towards a challenging person, this helps to naturalize your preconceived outcome of your interactions. 

It's also a way to open yourself up to the practice of compassion. We do not walk in the shoes of others, or truly understand their influences and role models growing up and even currently. People do what they know and until aware, change may be postponed. A great way for you to help shift that energy, is in how you respond to them. This is one method that could potentially help you, simply by speaking favor. 


Laura Cerrano is a second-generation Certified New York City Feng Shui Consultant Expert. As a full-time Feng Shui consultant, Laura provides bicoastal consultations and workshops for residential, commercial, real estate developments, Fortune 500 companies and healing faculties. In addition, Laura is a resident teacher at the Metropolitan Institute of Design in Syosset, NY. She has been featured in highly respected publications and TV networks such as Bravo's "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen," PBS, CBC Television, BBC Radio and The New York Times. 


Comment balloon 9 commentsLaura Cerrano • October 04 2015 08:40PM


i may not get the whole funky swaying thing :) ..but your post here makes sooo much sense. walking in others moccasins

Posted by Mike Rock, Granite Bay Luxury New Construction...For Less (Complete Design) about 4 years ago

I've used this strategy before and find that it works especially well if you are up against a very aggressive person. It seems to really throw them off. Have a great week!

Posted by Stefan Winter, Owner - Winter Group & Real Estate Web Tech (Real Estate in IL & NV | Owner of Real Estate Web Tech | Daily Vlogger) about 4 years ago

Laura compassion is important, if you practice it daily it will be a long term beneficial strategy...Endre

Posted by Endre Barath, Jr., Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002 (Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices) about 4 years ago

I love this idea I will make an effort to apply it in real life soon Laura!

Posted by Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366, General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage (Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366) about 4 years ago

Laura Cerrano I have always tried to see things the way the other person does.  I think it would be even better to automatically think favorably about their viewpoints and act accordingly.

Posted by Gary Coles (International Referrals), Latin America Real Estate (Venture Realty International) about 4 years ago

 Good Monday morning Laura. There is a lot to be said about positive flow of energy. When we speak positively about others than the positive energy returns to us.

Posted by TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc., Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029 (Complete Home Inspections, Inc.) about 4 years ago

Good morning Laura. Great thought I need to practice more often! Enjoy your day!

Posted by Wayne Martin, Real Estate Broker - Retired (Wayne M Martin) about 4 years ago

Hi Laura.  Speaking positively and nonjudgmental is a good practice.

Posted by Conrad Allen, Webster, Ma, Realtor (Re/Max Professional Associates) about 4 years ago

I believe this to be true, it seems the more that we are willing to give, the more we receive in return.

Posted by Brian England, MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ (Arizona Focus Realty) about 4 years ago

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