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A Feng Shui Consultant's Thoughts.....by Feng Shui Long Island, New York City

Quite often I am asked just how long will it take for Feng Shui to start working...in other words, when will they see changes?  I tell them it's impossible to tell.  We were always taught the art of using Feng Shui in your space is a PROCESS and for some people, it can literally change the Energy of a space overnight and things will start to change.

For others it can take weeks or even months and they can become frustrated and lose confidence.  That is the worst mistake they can make.  A Feng Shui consultant cannot tell a client exactly WHEN the changes will occur, only that they will and they need to trust and believe in the process.  If negative thoughts start to come in, it will certainly delay the process.

Feng Shui Belief --  Feng Shui New York Consultant

I have also noticed something else over the years that I don't have an exact answer to, only my own personal feelings about it:  Often times after a client books a consultation and has finally made the decision to have one done; before I even arrive they will notice changes.  They will get new clients, receive an unexpected check or find out they don't need expensive car work.  It's only in the last year of so that I've noticed it and remember to include the question  "Has anything changed since you made the appointment?"  More often then not I will get the answer YES.

I had to wonder how this could be possible.  My conclusion seems to be that they're COMMITTED to having a Feng Shui Consultation and making changes in their lives, many times after YEARS of putting it off.  They've already redirected their energy and their Intentions are now to move forward.  This in itself seems to create a shift.

There are many mysteries to Feng Shui and the way it works to me, even now after all these years and that's part of what makes this work so wonderful.  Every day I see or learn something new; and know that no matter how much I learn, I will NEVER learn it all. 

Feng Shui School  --  Feng Shui New York Consultant

 

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*Carole Provenzale has been a Certified Feng Shui Consultant since 1997 and is the Founder of Feng Shui Long Island, New York providing on site Feng Shui Consultations to all of New York City and Long Island for Homes, Businesses, Offices, Corporations, Real Estate Agents, New Construction and Renovations and Feng Shui Consultations at a distance by phone.  All Consultations are Personalized and Affordable.

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Comments

I was thinking Feng Shui was more about placement of the furniture, etc., which would cause you to feel different about the room, but I didn't realize there was a belief aspect with it. This is interesting
Posted by Cathy Glass, Realtor® Knoxville Tennessee (Realty Executives Associates) over 4 years ago

Carole- I know very little about Feng Shui, aside from what I learn from you and the sources you direct me to; but I'm starting to think Feng Shui is as much or more about people as it is about space and how it impacts people.  Am I wrong?

Jackie

Posted by Jackie Peraza, Home Stager - Framingham, Massachusetts (Perceptions AdverStaging(TM), LLC) over 4 years ago

Carole.... interesting.  What's one saying, "mind over matter"?   I have learned a lot from you and it has been interesting. I still remember the one that you did in regards to pictures and mirrors.   just the basic things can make a difference. Thanks

jeff belonger
Posted by Jeff Belonger-The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans ( Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc) over 4 years ago
Carole- After I did all the things our Feng Shui consultant told us to do, our entire real estate market fell apart! I know that was not Feng Shui and no amount of energy could change what was about to happen. 
Posted by Nestor & Katerina Gasset Realtors® Wellington Florida Homes For Sale (International Properties and Investments LLC) over 4 years ago
Carole: When we impose our arbitrary hurly burly timetable on nature's process is when things really start to seem to go awry. If we can but be patient I'm sure we'll see the results we seek in good measure. Thank you for your postings!
Posted by Matt Grohe RE/MAX Des Moines (RE/MAX Real Estate Concepts) over 4 years ago
Carole, I have to tell you, I have learned SO much about Feng Shui from you and am thrilled whenever I read one of your articles.  Thank you!
Posted by Kris Wales - Macomb County MI real estate blog & homes for sale search site (Keller Williams Realty - Lakeside Market Center) over 4 years ago

Hi Carole,

Nice post! Every time I read one of your posts I learn something new too! Thanks 

Posted by Trace Galle (Designs by Trace) over 4 years ago
Hi Carole,
I, like Jackie, believe it must be about the person and their attitude, thoughts and energy.  Are we on the right track?
Posted by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc) over 4 years ago
Carole:  You really do have a gift of writing.  I think that's what I find so interesting about Feng Shui are the mysteries you mentioned and the energy that it generates. 
Posted by Donna Yates Broker Assoc, GRI, Georgia North Georgia Blue Ridge Real Estate (Blue Ridge, Ellijay, Blairsville, Hiawassee, Morganton, Aska) over 4 years ago

Hello Carole - We can relate to your client's questions somewhat in that we get asked often " How long will it take for my home to sell ? " and there are many factors that go into the answer - we cannot give them an exact timetable either!

Great Post

Sincerely,

Grace

Posted by Jeff & Grace Safrin, Broker / Owners, SFR, CRS, Northwest Indiana (F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate) over 4 years ago
Carole, I think that I might ask the same thing- we are an "instant gratification" society, and the promise of positive change with Feng Shui is so tempting!
Posted by Laurie Mindnich at Options Realty over 4 years ago
That's interesting about the timing. I thought it was sort of immediately afterwards! Thanks Carole!
Posted by Mary Pope-Handy, ABR, CRS, ePRO, SRES, ASP (Sereno Group Real Estate) over 4 years ago

Carole,

It is amazing how once someone commits to a change, the channels become open and the universe begins to deliver.....

((-:

Jo 

Posted by Jo-Anne Smith- Oakville, Burlington and Mississauga Region Real Estate, Ont (Your Choice Realty ) over 4 years ago

Carole

 

You put so much of your intentions before the consultation, you " wrap up" in your client needs .. and that energy is seen right away. THanks for beautiful post.

Posted by Maria Borci P.A. ABR-TRC-ASP Doral Kendall FL Real Estate (Homes 4 You LLC) over 4 years ago

 There are, in some schools of thought, the Three Lucks.  I will explain them in another post.

Cathy, Thank you for your comment, that's what many people believe.  Feng Shui is first the way you live and your lifestyle, it is much more then decorating.

Jackie, No you are not wrong.  I have to look for some old posts that explain it is first about the way we live.

Jeff, It's true, your beliefs create your realities.  Thank you for your kind comment. 

Katerina, That was out of your hands. But you can bet with all the changes you've done that you will get through it fine and really pick up when it's over.

Matt, Thank you, you are exactly right.  It's my perspective also that things happen when they are supposed to.

Kris, I'm so glad.  There are still so many misconceptions about Feng Shui.  I can honestly say in another few years it will become an accepted way of life with this shift most people are experiencing.

Trace,  What a nice thing to say, thank you for your comments!

Cynthia, Yes, you are although I have seen non believers change their minds after a consultation :) It's about the way you live your life.

Donna, I WISH I had a gift for writing, it never quite comes out the way I'd like it to :)

Jeff & Grace, Exactly, of course you can't tell them how long it will take to sell their home---we can't tell clients how long it will take to see changes.  But eventually it WILL sell and they WILL see changes.

Laurie, We sure are, sometimes I wonder what happened to a bit of patience--and belief.  And sometimes things do literally turn around overnight!

Mary, For some it is and I LOVE to see that but more often then not it's a process and can take some time

Jo, That, to me, is incredible!  They don't at first believe it's related to Feng Shui because I haven't been there yet but I truly believe it's the commitment to make changes that can start them almost immediately.

Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago
Maria, We were cross commenting :)  You are SO right--and you should know!  I think you explained it better then I did :)
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago
I've noticed this also with myself Carole, that often when I make a decision, change can be immeditiate befor I even have time to begin the process of change. I heard a saying some years ago, that says, "when you decide, everything follows."
Posted by Deborah Pearce (Styling, Staging, Sales and Business. ) over 4 years ago
Carole, I am new to Feng Shui in spite of many interests I have in astrology, philosophies and spiritual paths. It is fascinating, I have so much to learn and I am excited to have you around. I booked your site and today I'll go though it entirely... I may send you an email from there. Thank you for everything. 
Posted by Arina S. Hanciulescu - Real Estate Agent - (EXIT REALTY IMOTI) over 4 years ago
Carole - I imagine often times there are possitive changes and your clients are not even aware until they really think about it.  Do you find it is best to make gradual changes or a full overhaul all at once.
Posted by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty) over 4 years ago

Deborah, I think that saying is very accurate.  It took me a while to think about how it was happening, this never came up in school.  But I do know many people put off a consultation for one reason or another for years and nothing changes....then on some occasions as soon as they book one, there is a shift.

Arina, Good, I'm delighted to hear that and I enjoy your posts very much as well, I am subscribed.

Candy, Interesting question!  When I had my consult done I was told I had to make all the changes within three days...there were some big things including having huge pieces of furniture moved and painting.  It not only put a terrible stress on me but things didn't go well...I don't believe changing the energy that fast is the best way to do it.  I ask my clients to make the changes, if possible, within two weeks.

Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago
Hi Carole I definitely believe that being open to allowing change to occur is key.  I have experienced this personally.
Posted by The Best Spot Realty/Waterfront Real Estate/Ooltewah Real E over 4 years ago
Hi Carole I definitely believe that being open to allowing change to occur is key.  I have experienced this personally.
Posted by The Best Spot Realty/Waterfront Real Estate/Ooltewah Real E over 4 years ago
Gayle, I believe you're absolutely right.  At least open to the possibilites--of change.  It is wonderful to give them different views and perspectives on how to look at things.
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago

Hi Carole,

You are welcome! Have a great day. 

Posted by Trace Galle (Designs by Trace) over 4 years ago
Carole~The gift that you give us all to learn so much about Feng Shui is truly remarkable. See, my wish is to have you come to Utah, help me with my home and then me and my family take you on a tour of the many beautiful surroundings that our state is waiting for you to see. You give me the belief that this is possible. 
Posted by Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~ (Agent Referral) over 4 years ago
Julie, Anything is possible...anything!  I was begininng to think I would never make it to Paris and I did!  It's amazing what our thoughts and beliefs create....mixed with some passion!
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago

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