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The 'GOOD DEED DOERS' of ActiveRain

There is a scene in "The Wizard of Oz" where the Wizard is speaking of people doing a Good Deed.  He can't quite remember the name of them so he calls them ‘Good Deed Doers.'  It was a wonderful lesson to learn way back then and it's always a wonderful thing to happen to you in YOUR life.  A ‘Good Deed Doer' will come by, help you with what you need and they never require even a Thank you....

Some of us on Activerain try to do good deeds; not because we were asked to, just because we want to.  And the very act of helping someone else out can make us feel wonderful.  It's a true gift that you give because it's a gift of your TIME and there is nothing on earth more precious to you then your time.  Time spent, for the most part should be doing the things you WANT to do, even if they don't directly benefit you.

I can honestly say both my children are good deed doers.  They'll try to help out anyone in any way they can and their voice fills with pride when they tell me about it later.  Digging a stranger out of the snow, stopping for someone who is stuck, even helping an elderly person cross the street, they will take time and help. With nothing asked in return, the return they DO get from it is just a good feeling.  The kind of feeling that you can't really get from anywhere else.

Tonight someone was a ‘Good Deed Doer' to me.  Our own ActiveRain doll, Grace Saffrin, took time out of HER busy schedule to help me learn how to post a YouTube.   She saw that I couldn't do it on my Barry Manilow post and offered.  I emailed her to thank her and warn her that I am the LEAST computer savvy person she will ever come across....and it didn't seem to matter.  She gave me a very precious gift, her TIME.

Thank you, Grace for your time AND your patience, it is more appreciated then you know!  In my first attempt to post a You Tube (which I had thought was U Tube) there is only one song that came to mind.  We all need it, we all use it and we should all give it out---A little help-from my FRIENDS. 

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Comments

Carole - I am pretty tech savy but haven't seen or heard the process for posting a You Tube video so maybe you can do a good deed and point (or post) me in the right direction so I can figure this thing out. By the way - It seems like us good deed doers rarely get the attention, but that is okay because as you stated in your post we do what we do because it is who we are.

P.S. Listened to the song and loved the song choice.

Posted by John Stauffer MBA, E-pro,CRS, ABR, GRI, SRES over 4 years ago

Why don't ya' share how you put the video in and pass on the good deed??

LOVE the song selection!

Best to you and yours...

Posted by Paige Rausch (Boback Commercial Group) over 4 years ago

Some one did it a while ago and I forgot to save it...they were a young couple, wish I could remember...they said it in great detail...but if you could post a blog as well! I'll try to remember this time..

thanks,

Happy Holidays and good health!

Posted by Karen Monsour,REALTOR®, SSRS - SELLS FL WATER FRONT, SHORT SALE EXPERT! (Coldwell Banker Fort Lauderdale Beach) over 4 years ago
Cool....you did it....with the help from your friends :)
Posted by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman, RA, CRS, HAWAII Real Estate & Relocations (Century 21 Liberty Homes) over 4 years ago
That why Active Rain rocks...we help each other, we learn for each other. Happy Holidays!
Posted by Monika McGillicuddy~NH Real Estate Broker (Prudential Verani Realty) over 4 years ago
Let me add my name to the list of folks that would like to observe. Congrats on sticking with the challenge  An ActiveRain thanks to Grace Saffrin.
Posted by Dionne Morgan Broker REALTOR®,GRI, e-PRO (Realty World Solano Realty) over 4 years ago

Carole... now send her 1.5 million dollars for helping you...  lol  Seriously, there are many good deed doers on here... thanks for sharing this.

jeff belonger
Posted by Jeff Belonger-The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans ( Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc) over 4 years ago
When you get the time, if you can fill us in on how to post a you tube (or u tube - I'm with you), it would be great!  I think maybe Jeff Turner may have done a blog on this a long time ago.  -- Any information you have would be much appreciated!  Here is to the members of the RAIN!  BRAVO!
Posted by Joan Whitebook Southern New Hampshire (BHG The Masiello Group) over 4 years ago
Carole ~ What a great song to go along with your post!  How nice of Grace to take the time to walk you through this; I'm sure she is one of many "good deed doers" here in the Rain, and I'm glad you acknowledged her. 
Posted by Kathy Passarette, L.I. Staging/Decorating (Creative Home Expressions) over 4 years ago
I will venture to say that you aren't as 'challenged' as you think when it comes to matters of the technological kind.  LOL  I have never posted a video so I'm not going to even try to explain anything about it!  I'm just proud of you for learning and doing!  Way to go!   (And thanks, Grace, for helping our friend!)
Posted by Carol Smith (Casmi Photography) over 4 years ago
Awesome post and video!!  Congrats on the help and your first success.
Posted by Linda Futral over 4 years ago

There are a few that would love to help...I certainly would...if I knew how!

Happy Holidays, Karen

Posted by Karen Monsour,REALTOR®, SSRS - SELLS FL WATER FRONT, SHORT SALE EXPERT! (Coldwell Banker Fort Lauderdale Beach) over 4 years ago

Grace sent me this after my first few attempts and not getting it right.  I'm still not sure what I kept doing wrong but I HATE to give up!  And she is a doll to help me.  So this might help everyone who doesn't know how!  And I'm thrilled, maybe I CAN learn new things after all :)

http://activerain.com/blogsview/51330/A-Video-On-How

John, Thank you for stopping in and commenting.  People here can do some amazing things on their blogs and Grace was kind enough to offer to help me.  I hope the tutorial she sent helps everyone.

Paige, That was the first song that came to my mind and FIT!  I will likely start annoying everyone by adding songs all the time :)

Karen, Thank you for your comment. I was doing something wrong but finally it worked!  I hope the above blog helps everyone, I thought I was the only one here :)

Sally, You have to love these friends, they are truly amazing.  I think that's how we ALL get by (and SO glad to see you back!! You were missed)

Monika, Thank you so much, AR sure does rock and so do the people on it!  I wanted a happy song that fit what Grace did and found it!

Dionne, Kudos to Grace, did I mention her PATIENCE?  I can't learn when someone is impatient and she is a doll. 

Jeff, I probably would if I could!   There is nothing more precious to give then the gift of your time.

Joan, So many people know so many things, I swear I'm going to learn animation one day!  I hope the tutorial helps you.

Kathy, It is a great song and this is a big accomplishment for me, I'm as "un techy" as they come!!

Carol, I don't know if I've EVER met such wonderful people---even those I haven't "met" yet.  You are all friends.

Linda, Thank you!  I believe I did it 5 times before it worked...but I did it :)!!  Thank you for taking the time to comment.

Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago
Karen, You'll know how now I believe!  I somehow know you'd help if you could...dare you to try one!
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago

Carole, You're the first and foremost good deed doer and giver of support here on AR..you're always there helping and greeting people. I remember you were the first person at AR to welcome me and make me feel at home....AR wouldn't be the same without you.

I'm so glad Grace helped you to post videos....I love that song!!

((-:

Jo 

Posted by Jo-Anne Smith- Oakville, Burlington and Mississauga Region Real Estate, Ont (Your Choice Realty ) over 4 years ago
Carole - Great job getting the video posted!  It is a little tricky at first.  I love Joe Cocker, too.
Posted by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653) (Austin Texas Homes, LLC) over 4 years ago

Carole,

Maybe after I come back from seeing my Father...going home 12/20 -12/27...I'm so glad to see my children and my family...

Hey though, Happy Holidays to you and a great 2008! I'll be with you...not giving up!

:-)

Posted by Karen Monsour,REALTOR®, SSRS - SELLS FL WATER FRONT, SHORT SALE EXPERT! (Coldwell Banker Fort Lauderdale Beach) over 4 years ago
Carole - You did good and what a nice thing for Grace offer her time for you!  You are always helping others, I am glad it is returned.  Is it hard to do, by the way?  If you have some tips, pass them on to me, as I can do a link, that is it. 
Posted by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty) over 4 years ago
Carole maybe you can help me sometime to do it. Im signed up and bought a webcam and dont know how to upload. Good post , very interesting to me! XOXO
Posted by Fernando Rosado 561-906-0050 or 561-840-8950 over 4 years ago
Carole-There are so many "Good Deed Doers" in our lives and when that comes our way, how truly precious that is as you mentioned.  That comes of no surprise to me to see it was Grace.  What a sweetheart she is.  Have a beautiful night my friend. 
Posted by Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~ (Agent Referral) over 4 years ago

Carole,
You go girl!  I agree with Candy that you are usually on the giving end, good to see you receiving.  

I haven't posted a You Tube yet but I did experiment with it and found out I could do it.  These things are not difficult once someone takes the time to guide you through the process.  :0) 

Jeff Turner posted a wonderful blog about embedding anything in your blog--step by step.   

 

Posted by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc) over 4 years ago
Carole -- Good job!!  And you already know that is one of my all time favorite videos.  :-) 
Posted by Cheryl Johnson, Bob Taylor Properties, Inc., Los Angeles, CA over 4 years ago

Carole,

Doesn't it feel great knowing the World has some pretty good people in it? One good deed deserves another.

Sincerely

Tom Braatz and Lars

Posted by Tom Braatz,Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent,Waukesha Cty WI Real Estate (Re/Max Realty Center 262-377-1459) over 4 years ago
Carole- I loved that song, still do. Boy does Joe look really high in this video, but then again everyone was high at Woodstock! I am so happy too with all the love and reaching out to one another on the rain. Katerina
Posted by Nestor & Katerina Gasset Realtors® Wellington Florida Homes For Sale (International Properties and Investments LLC) over 4 years ago

Carole- I love to hear how others take time to help/share their experience and knowledge.  I have had several people help me, and today Tom Platt sent me a mail telling me of a spelling error in my Title...well, maybe that's not as good as how to do a U Tube to some, but for me....Thank You Tom.   Sally helped me big time with the Real Estate shows....thank You Sally......these were my most recent "Good Deed Dooers " :) :) 

Carole you are ahead of me, I can't put the U Tube up yet :) :)

Posted by Kathy McGraw, Riverside County CA Real Estate (CELLing Realty) over 4 years ago
That's great! Now I need a little help. I have never done a youtube video. Haven't gotten around to that yet.
Posted by Lizette Fitzpatrick - Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes - Horse Farms (Lizette Realty - Lexington KY - Richmond KY) over 4 years ago
Carole, My Missus favorite quote is "being nice is free, don't cost a thing." True. And the goodwill it promotes. Compassion and sacrifice have great healing powers for all involved.
Posted by Blogger To Be Named Later over 4 years ago

My Dear Carole You are very welcome!!!!! I TOLD YOU YOU COULD DO THIS :) Jeff came in when the video was playing an said That's Joe Cocker ...Cool - excellent choice of song my friend :)

Thanks for all you've given many of us ...here in the Rain

Blessings

Grace

Posted by Jeff & Grace Safrin, Broker / Owners, SFR, CRS, Northwest Indiana (F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate) over 4 years ago

Wish you a Merry Christmas and best wishes for a great year in 2008.

Tommy   New York Certified Home Inspector Long Island NY 

Posted by "Tommy" Decebal Adamescu Long Island NY Certified MASTER Home Inspector (HomeSpector Inc. 516-851-5833) over 4 years ago
Carole:  I've been very fortunate because I have met nothing but good deed doers on Active Rain.  I don't think I could even begin to write about all the the things I've learned.  I would like to but the post would be endless.  I hope my niece will help me incorporate music and video this weekend.  I have no idea how to do either.
Posted by Donna Yates Broker Assoc, GRI, Georgia North Georgia Blue Ridge Real Estate (Blue Ridge, Ellijay, Blairsville, Hiawassee, Morganton, Aska) over 4 years ago
Doesn't it feel great to know you have raised kids that have become whole, giving adults? It is one of life's great rewards, enjoy it.
Posted by Bonnie & Terry Westbrook Grand Rapids MI Real Estate (Westbrook Realty) over 4 years ago

Jo, I was lucky to have found you...very lucky!  It WAS wonderful of Grace to help and I don't feel so technologically challanged anymore!

Jason, It took me about 5 tries.  I figured next time I'll be down to only 4 :)  But it's so much FUN when it finally works!  Thank you for your comment.

Karen, I hope you have a wonderful time, we will miss you in the rain!  And I'm glad to hear you don't give up, either.  Happy Holidays!!

Candy, It wasn't that difficult but I have never done anything with HTML.  And didn't even know what that other thing was :)  I need someone who is patient or I get nervous and make it worse, Grace has the patience of a saint!

Fernando, A webcam?  I don't believe it would work the same way...so you're WAY ahead of me. 

Julie, It was very special for Grace to help me.  Even knowing I had never done anything like it before, she is a true blessing as are many of the people on here!

Cheryl, I had forgotten, I LOVE that song!  You amaze me with YOUR talents, anyone who can make a CAR disappear I am in awe of!!

Tom, It really does make you feel good to have someone reach out!  We are all lucky to have found these special people and hope I help others as well.

Katerina, Funny, I thought the same thing!  I didn't get to Woodstock but I was awfully close--and have an Original Poster from it!

Kathy, I love these people that help us.  I have never done a RES, I imagine that would be very difficult, they are SO nice.  I don't have a clue yet on how they're made. Kudos to Tom and Sally for helping you!

Lizette, You can get hung up on that site for HOURS, I was afraid to go over there.  Gee, there are so many songs that I haven't heard in YEARS and they're all there!  Be careful on that site too :)

Andrew, Your misses is absolutely right, it costs nothing.  A little thing can mean a lot to someone...I like your wife, she needs to sign on!

Grace, I can't thank you enough!  I had to do it a few times but finally I got it!  I have to try so hard to do things that are easy for other people---and thank  you for your PATIENCE!  Blessings to you, my dear friend.

Tommy, Thank you kindly, Mr. Long Island Home Inspector....I wish you a very happy holidays as well! 

Donna, You will get so excited when you finally do it!  I did, I was thrilled.  Just when I think I can't learn another new thing....some wonderful person comes along and shows me that I can!

Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago
Hey Carole - looks like everything has been said here and I am so glad that Jeff's link was added because that is how I learned...now about that video...what was he on???
Posted by Sheron Cardin - how2homestage.com (California Moods Inc) over 4 years ago
Isn't it nice when someone extends a helping hand! 
Posted by Georgina M. Hunter R(S) e-Pro Maui Real Estate Sales (Jim Sanders Realty Inc. - Maui) over 4 years ago

Hi Carole,

Nice post. 

Posted by Trace Galle (Designs by Trace) over 4 years ago

Sheron, Goodness knows what he was on but he still belted it out :)  I loved that song, sure wish I had made it all the way there!

Georgina, It is just wonderful when someone gives you their time.  Grace has so much patience and encouragement, she was SO helpful!  Thank you for your comment.

Trace, Thank you, I just came from yours.  I love your beautiful little Maltese, he looks so festive!  Happy Holidays!

Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago

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