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Where The Day Takes You....

One thing I never wanted to do was lead a boring life.  I've had my share of "Groundhog" days with each day a repeat of the last and I was miserable.  It took much courage (or total stupidity, I haven't decided yet) that while raising two children and owning a home ALONE whether to finally quit my reliable, guaranteed income producing job with benefits to pursue a dream.  My last day of work I took off my watch as I was no longer be dictated by time.  Sink or swim, I was on my own.

That is exactly why I don't make many plans.  If I'm going to a show in the City, for example, I could be completely immersed in something else and don't want to leave but there's another place I have to be.  There's much to be said for "playing it by ear." 

After our New York City trip to The San Gennaro Feast we went straight into Chinatown.  It has become huge and the crowds are enormous.  Weekends there are time for shopping AND socializing for many of them and we walked down Canal Street, looking at the "knock off" handbags and every kind of food imaginable (some were unimaginable).  The next sign I saw said "Bowery."  Years ago I had wandered with my ex and children into the Bowery and it was one of the scariest places I have ever been.  Now it's just an extension of Chinatown, not at all threatening.

I saw a sign but wasn't sure what it said.  I THOUGHT I saw the word "Temple" and it had Chinese writing.  My daughter who usually just "goes with it" was tired; we had braved the rains, done the Feast and eaten.  I was having none of it, I wanted to see what it was.  It was a Buddhist Temple, one that I had never heard of or knew existed.  I was shocked, the only temple I am aware of is in Old Westbury, Long Island which is owned by HHH Professor Lin Yun.  It is where I celebrated by Certification in Feng Shui and was blessed again a decade after that.

I've come across so many things this year that I NEVER would have expected.  I've been to Lourdes (on Long Island) and seen Alpacas in the middle of New York City.  I came across a Memorial to Grumman Employees on the way home from a Feng Shui Consultation.  I've showed you the other Temple, here's the one we bumped into:

Feng Shui consultant Long IslandWhat IS that across the street?  A Temple in the Bowery...?

Feng Shui Long Island Oyster BayAnd it looks OPEN....

Feng Shui New York CityThere are beautiful displays on the altar in front with lots of fresh fruit for abundance and cut flowers for Chi.

Feng Shui Long Island BlessingsWalls of Blessings.  There are mats on the floor for prayer.

Feng Shui New York City ConsultantThe red background represents the FIRE ELEMENT but all the elements are addressed here.  Much like a Vastu altar, Water is usually addressed with a small bowl of water.  There is also Metal, Wood and Earth.

Feng Shui Oyster Bay consultantBells and Gongs are very Auspicious.  This one is Huge.  Notice how much they use the Color Red.

Feng Shui Long Island Ok, you need to cut me a lot of Slack here, I'd braved the rains, done the fair and walked through Chinatown.  These are Foo Dogs for Protection.

Thankfully, most of my days are anything but boring and predictable.  By the time THIS was over, we walked back to the Feast to eat yet again before heading home.  Sometimes NO plans are the BEST plans.

Some of the other "wonders":  A TREASURE found on Long Island---The "Gold Coast" of Oyster Bay

FUN Feng Shui in New York City: What ELSE does a Feng Shui Consultant do?

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Comments

Thanks for posting about your "bumping" into the temple. Chinese have such an interesting culture and their temples are all so colorful and seem to be full of life. Red is THE color and you can usually tell a home of a Chinese family with the red wooden fence with a little roof on top. I am the year of the Rooster and Fire Element.
Posted by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman, RA, CRS, HAWAII Real Estate & Relocations (Century 21 Liberty Homes) over 4 years ago
Hello Carole,
The temple is beautiful and I know very interesting.  Live in the moment, that's what I hear you saying that you do and  how wonderful.  I've not quite reached that point but it's my goal.  Another lovely and inspiring post from you.  Love it.  Thank you.
Posted by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc) over 4 years ago

Carole...They didn't mind that you took the photos? What a beautiful place....it had a safe feel!

What a fun day! Thanks for posting tha link to the other post!

Posted by Joan Mirantz GRI CBR SRES- Concord New Hampshire Realtor (Homequest Real Estate) over 4 years ago

Carole! What a marvelous adventure! New York I'm sure, like many large cities is a country or several in itself! WOW

We have a lovely temple here in Kelowna which I attend most Sundays. I am not Buddhist, nor wish to be, but very much appreciate and take advantage of the beneficial practice. The Chinese nuns are very sweet and wise people.

Great shots!

Posted by Deborah Pearce (Living Spaces Interior Design & Home Staging ) over 4 years ago
Carole, The Temple is so pretty and colorful.  I love the Foo Dogs-They look so large and mighty.  I find your post extremely interesting-Thanks for sharing.
Posted by Candy Henthorne- Spring Texas Real Estate (Results Realty) over 4 years ago
Carole- I love to life without plans sometimes. Sometimes not. I have dreams and make plans to make those dreams come true. I learned from raising 6 children that if you make plans the kids will sure to mess them up so just go with the flow.  I do not use an alarm clock, never have, never will. I worked for McDonalds for 2 weeks when I was 16, quit and vowed never to work for someone else again, since then I have been and am an entrepreneur and love my life. Katerina
Posted by Nestor & Katerina Gasset Realtors® Wellington Florida Homes For Sale (International Properties and Investments, Inc.) over 4 years ago
CAROLE:  You and I seem to stroll down memory lane together in our blogs.  It seems that one or the other is always inspiring a story to share.  My parents grew up in the lower east side of Manhattan.  My grandmother still lives there in the same apartment that she's been in for over 40 years.  Often times while visiting, my father would take us over to the Bowery to see the "bums," now known as homeless people, although I believe that the two are not one in the same.  To me a homeless person is one that has fallen on hard times, but has a desire to regain their place in society.  The men that we used to go and see were a kind of subculture, as many of them seemed very content to spend the day drinking with their cohorts.  They were generally very happy and not at all threatening.  Some of them were even friendly to us.  Again, times change and so does political correctness.  However, I can change my story to reflect the words that we use today because using the word "bums" reminds me of time spent with my father who has passed away.  Sorry to go off on a tangent.  However, the part that strikes me as odd, is that you found beauty in a neighborhood that was once known for the polar opposite.  It's amazing how things change.  When I worked in Times Square, it was a seedy place that was a little scary if you left work after dark.  Now, tourists stroll around with their cameras at all hours of the night not even thinking about danger.  Thanks for sharing this story, Carole.
Posted by Adam Waldman - Long Island REALTOR® (Westcott Group Real Estate Company) over 4 years ago

Superstition MtnsCarole- What a great story and I love the way you opened up in your first paragraph! We have a lot in common. It was a pleasant surprise to find your story about finding a Temple. 

My sister in-law is from Korea and her sister is a Monk. I love going over to their home to visit and when her sister is in town we get to visit a lot about the culture differnces. The greatest thing happened when I just recently represented my sister (for her sister, the monk) a piece of land out by our Superstition Mountains to have a temple built. She is an amazing person and I have yet to get out there to see what new things they have done! I look forward to being able to go there and learn the art of mediation. It is so fascinating to me to get to know others and their beliefs. What a great find you found there in the Bowery! Great photos and so colorful. Thank you for sharing. I thought I would share my sister in-law Seonah, one of my best friends.

 

Posted by Gilbert Arizona Real Estate - REALTOR® Candace Robinson Broker Associate (HomeSmart ) over 4 years ago

Fascinating.  I'm very familiar with that area, and I had no clue that temple was there.  Excellent post, Carole.

Bill

Posted by BILL CHERRY (BILL CHERRY, Real Estate Broker) over 4 years ago

Carole, How exciting for you to find a temple in your travels during the feast...it's amazing what we find when we just go with the flow, isn't it?  When you leave yourself open to possibilities, anything can happen.....

The pictures are wonderful !  Thanks so much for sharing more of your lovely day with us....

Jo 

Posted by Jo-Anne Smith- Oakville, Burlington and Mississauga Region Real Estate, Ont (Brekland Realty Group) over 4 years ago
Carole--I love the Chinatown photos...Makes me want to take a trip to NYC!! Thanks for sharing your pics from your wonderful unplanned day!
Posted by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka&Washington Counties Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (REMAX Specialists) over 4 years ago

Carole: Thanks for sharing your day trip to Chinatown! My son and I were in China last November and absolutely fell in love with the cultllure and people. We were usually discouraged from taking interior shots of the temples.

Unplanned days can be exquisite--especially if you place yourself in new surroundings. 

Posted by Roberta Murphy -- Carlsbad Real Estate and Homes (San Diego Previews * Previews Luxury Real Estate) over 4 years ago

Sally,I would have guessed you were FIRE :)  PURE FIRE.  I actually love their culture which is similar to many that I also love including Native American, Indian, Tibetian (sorry I missed the Dali Lama) and so many others.  Their principles are so much alike.  Thank you for your comment.

Cynthia,There is so much to be said for not being dicatated by time (which is what I was always running on).  I left behind a very boring and unhappy life and I am SO glad I did!

Joan, They didn't mind at ALL, I asked permission.  There was only one altar that I could not photograph.  They also have services there which would be interesting, they are done by (what else?) Buddhist Monks. Are you taking a road trip this weekend??

Deborah,It was a wonderful "find."  I adore the culture very much as well, they are such peaceful people!  That date on the Temple was 1997---it was the year I graduated my formal studies of Feng Shui and became certified. Hmmmm..... 

Candy, Thank you, I have two smaller ones and unfortunately, I have to keep them inside :(  Or have them cemented into the ground.  My son bought them for me and they are precious to me!

Katerina, You are one of the fortunate ones to have lived that life.  For more years then I care to remember everyone else dictated my life and TIME.  I can tell that you love your life and I'm making up for all those years I wasn't happy!  Thanks for your comment.

Adam, I "trip" off your stories as well, they strike a nerve.  I have always lived on Long Island and have seen the changes over the years, both here and in the City (not to mention Brooklyn and Queens where we had relatives).  I too remember the "bums" and they were drunk, the Bowery at that time was scary to me and I thought it still would be but it's completely different.  I was in Hell's Kitchen not long ago (and can't find the pictures) but that's changed as well and for the BETTER.  Thank you for sharing your memories of your father.

Candace,Thank you for sharing that lovely picture!  Where is Superstition Mountains, I have heard of them but don't remember (for some reason I thought of Arizona but I don't think that's correct).  One of the many people I trained with was a Buddhist Monk and they have a very diciplined life, I imagine it is quite difficult.  And they are so pure of heart---I surely would like to meet your sister in law.  Thank you so much for sharing that story and picture!

Bill,I didn't either, I would have went had I known.  And I am surprised by how long it's been there.  If you're in the area, it really is fascinating to see it in person.  Thankyou for stopping by and your comment.

Jo, Well, you summed it up better then I could have!  Opening up to the possibilities shows anything can happen, wise words from a wise person!

Teri,It's high time you got back to New York....put it on your calendar for next year :)  And make sure it's when I'm in town :) 

Roberta, Thank you for your comment.  They were fine with the pictures and they are fine with it in the Monastery in Old Westbury as well.  In this one I was surprised because I started to take my shoes off but they motioned it was ok to leave them on.  I usually always do that in homes of certain cultures and in the other Temple.

Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago

Carole...The foliage won't be really good till next weekend Hopefully I'll get North then...weather and clients o-operating! LOL

If I have time this weekend I will post one from when we went "Moose Hunting" up in Pittsburgh at the Conneticut lakes. It was a while back but I have some really good pictures!

Posted by Joan Mirantz GRI CBR SRES- Concord New Hampshire Realtor (Homequest Real Estate) over 4 years ago
Carole- Superstition Mountains are in Arizona. Apache Junction area, which is about 45 minutes outside of Phoenix. Beautiful area and the 1.50 acre is faced directly at them for a beautiful view. The bigger plan is to build up the Temple now and she will have many visitors coming and going and studying. She will in the future build a structure and I imagine it will be very nice. My sister-in-law and her sister, the monk. Hand cleared the lot of prickly cactus and jumping cactus. Talk about discipline...Wow!! Glad you liked the picture. By the way, in the background is the SS Mtns.
Posted by Gilbert Arizona Real Estate - REALTOR® Candace Robinson Broker Associate (HomeSmart ) over 4 years ago
Candace, THANK YOU, I have been there and seen them and now know exactly where you are talking about!  I was entralled with Arizona and want very much to go back to Sedona one day.  I don't know how she was able to clear that catus, they are HUGE in Arizona.  I admire her for her hard work and dedication and sure would love to see the Temple when it is built.  Thank you again for the information and sharing the picture, I can envision her dream now.
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago
Joan, I get to travel with you; I love seeing pictures of different things whether they happen to be about something I run into or someone else does and while I always enjoy your posts, I love the ones I get to go along with!  Thank you for posting them, they are a treasure on AR.
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago

Did you not have the best time in Chinatown. Did you get Dim Sum? I think it is the best in Chinatown. NY has soooo much to see I just love getting into the City. It looks like you had a wonderfully, blessed day.

Phyllis Pafumi

Posted by Phyllis Pafumi-ReStyled to Sell Staging Homes NJ (ReStyled to Sell Home Staging New Jersey) over 4 years ago
Phyllis, We were too stuffed from The Feast to eat in Chinatown.  I just can't go into one of those truly authentic places in Chinatown with the ducks in the window...Funny that's probably the ONLY place in the city I haven't eaten in!
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago
Carole, we were visiting one of the far east countries a few years back and photographed a Buddha statue of Buddha lying down.  The statue was gigantic.  If I ever find the picture again, I'll post it for you.
Posted by Robert Monk Florida Real Estate (100% Realty, Inc.) over 4 years ago
Robert, I would love to see it.  Finding this place in Manhattan was a treat for me, I never knew it existed.  Thanks for stopping by and commenting and I would love to see the picture if you find it.
Posted by Laura Cerrano and Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City/Feng Shui Manhattan ) over 4 years ago

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